Welcome to the world of Tailored Resilience, led by the indomitable force known as Tosombra “Tai” Kimes, affectionately dubbed “The Resilience Queen.” With a heart as expansive as her vision and a spirit as unyielding as her determination, Tosombra embodies the essence of resilience, empowerment, and transformation.
Tosombra’s journey towards becoming the Resilience Queen is one marked by remarkable courage, unwavering resilience, and an unshakeable commitment to empowering others. As a heart attack and sexual assault survivor, disabled Army veteran, and former military spouse and caregiver, Tosombra’s mission is clear: to empower and uplift individuals and communities through resilience, collaboration, and advocacy.
Her personal experiences have shaped her into a fierce advocate for mental health awareness, women’s empowerment, and social justice causes. Surviving a heart attack, navigating the complexities of being a veteran, and overcoming the trauma of military sexual assault, Tosombra has faced life’s tumultuous waves with remarkable courage and unwavering strength.
But it is not just her personal struggles that define Tosombra’s journey. It is her unwavering commitment to transforming adversity into opportunities for growth and empowerment that truly sets her apart. Through workshops, one-on-one coaching, and her powerful writings, Tosombra guides women on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and resilience.
As the author of transformational journals like “Hey Sis, A Transformational Journal for Empowered Living,” and children’s books that promote positive change and self-growth, Tosombra’s writing is a testament to her belief in the power of resilience and the triumph of the human spirit.
Tosombra’s name, meaning “ALL DARKNESS,” reflects the journey she has undertaken – one of embracing the darkness within and discovering its inherent power. Just as people marvel at the beauty of a solar eclipse, Tosombra sees the meeting of her darkest days and trauma with her inner light and power as mesmerizing and beautiful.
It is this profound understanding of resilience as her superpower that led Tosombra to embrace her title as the Resilience Queen. For who else but Tosombra could still smile after having weathered life’s most challenging storms?
Join Tosombra and the Tailored Resilience community on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and empowerment. Together, we can transform adversity into opportunity, darkness into light, and emerge stronger, wiser, and more resilient than ever before.